Our Monthly Spiritual Themes guide our Chalice Circles, which are small, intentional groups of members and friends that gather for spiritual enrichment through personal sharing. For more information on Chalice Circles, please email chalicecircles@uuprinceton.org. Our Chalice Circle thoughts and questions around the theme of Vulnerability this month are:

“Vulnerability is about showing up and being seen. It’s tough to do that when we’re terrified about what people might see or think.” – Brené Brown

What do you think people see when they look at you? How does this compare with how you view yourself?
Consider these scenarios: a stranger sitting across from you on a train and/or a member of the congregation who you know casually.

 

“I’m not always in a full face of make-up! That’s actually one of the things I like about make-up – that you can strip it away and show your vulnerability.” – Dita Von Teese

What “makeup” do you use to hide your vulnerability? When are you able to remove it?

 

“I think one’s relationship with one’s vulnerability is a very delicate and precious relationship. Most people try to hide, disguise that vulnerability, and in doing that, you, I think, diminish a great source of power.” – Philip Schultz

How can being vulnerable increase your power?

 

“Some people should not be allowed to see beyond your surface. Seeing your vulnerability is a privilege, not meant for everyone.” – Yasmin Mogahed

When is it okay to hide your vulnerabilities?